How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
11.06.2025 02:06
When someone take the credit of my hard work , music , writing , art, etc and call me the one who's the thief. Outrageous.
Not being sexist or racist.
Poeple who push your bottons and provoke you to become angry are sick . They want to slowly kill you from an anger stroke , high blood pressure , jail , fights ,hospitals , isolation , and hate of others , because you are angry.They don't go after the real abusive predators, who they seem to not only kill freedom of speech and critics of the victim of human rights abuses , but also get an endorphin rush/self-satisfaction/control in playing with their prey. It's just who they are and what they do. In my case it's the Barzani's family and Canadian intelligent agency doing provocations to me for over 12 years .
What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?
Eating Fast Food
Skipping The Gym
Try to mind your own business unless somethings affects you directly.
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Pinching Pennies
When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
Slouching While Walking
Deion Sanders: Pre-draft attacks on Shedeur and Shilo "hurt" - NBC Sports
Subject: provocations and subtle human rights violations.
Day Dreaming
Gossiping
Picking Your Teeth In Public
Injured
Not Protecting Yourself From The Sun
Why am I always so tired, no matter how much I sleep?
Sticking bad and negative adjectives and names on me while I am not.
Skipping Work
Hacking my Facebook account.
Don't grab people's belongings and goodies.
Try to stand when greeting.
Borrowing And Not Returning Items
Do you think Trump is a bad a$$? Why or why not?
Spitting
Someone Disagree to reason, logic and rationality when I convince and Iam right.
Fidgeting
How to watch the 2025 Tony Awards on Sunday - NPR
If someone cut off my sources of legit fun , life interests , and health cure .
Watching T.V Right After Work
Talking to me loudly.
Leaving The Fridge Open
Give credit.
When someone threat me when I am innocent.
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Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
Sitting Too Close To The T.V
Using Devices At Night
What did your best friend do that ended your friendship?
Don't talk back.
Exaggerating
Impersonating me.
Ethane Exporter Says U.S. Won’t Allow Shipments to China - WSJ
Thumb Sucking
Talking To Yourself
Being able to swallow pride and actually making an honest apology when you honestly offend someone or do something that affects them in a bad way instead of trying to find a way to put the blame back on them.
What is your review of the Redmi 9A? Is it worth buying?
If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.
Eavesdropping
Make ugly and disgusting noises close to me .
Can the effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) be reversed?
Name Dropping
Don't desrespect me. If you don't know , now you know. There are many things and type of people who can get into someone's nerves and push them to become very angry to the point where they shout , break staffs , or beat or even kill the person or people who are hurting his / her nerves on and on . But there is a difference between becoming angry for a good reason and being angry for a bad reason.
How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
When you make a phonecall to someone,you tell your name, the name of person you want to speak to and the reason you have called up. Don't ask others name.
Burned
Forgotten
Heart-broken
Be confident and humble at the same time.
Letting Fear Stop You From Trying Something New
Always hold the door open for others.
Eating Too Fast / Not Chewing
Always say thank you and write a thank you note.
Rebuffed
Write down your dreams.
Do not drink the water directly from bottle ( touching mouth), if it is others.
Ignored
YouTube
Tapping Fingers/Pens/Etc.
Respect people regardless of their job.
While using a public toilet, leave the toilet dry and clean.
Arranging Instead of Cleaning
D.on't pull others down. Lift them up.
If someone expect something from me and they are not supposed to. I hate it .
While shaking hands, press a little,shake, hold for two seconds and then leave.
Neglected
Offended
Repeating Yourself
Telling Secrets
Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
Ask if you can help.
Conning me , ripping me off .
Use thankyou as often as you can.
Spending On Credit Cards
Online Surfing In Class
After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.
Again , this another way to encourage poeple to argue and encourage fights between me and poeple rather than peace justice and avoidance of problems and bad poeple. The problem is Iam not getting desrespected by more than one person . And it's not only once in a month or a year. It's every 2 to 3 days . It happens systematically with espionage and teach downs of my movements. I am sending my privacy right violations and reporting it to RCMP and police of Canada . If they continue calling me sick and hallucinated. And if they ignore investigating it . And if it happens more , I would have a solid justification to continue writing , talking and the Barzani's family , Kurds , police and Canada whenever I get desrespected.
Invalidated
Don't touch others while speaking.
Popping Zits
Ridiculed
Drinking Soda/Pop
Dishonest and unfair treatment.lies that causes big harms emotionally and physically or financially.
Show gratitude to God for all you have in life.
While calling the lift, press only once .Have a little patience the lift would come.
Saying “Yes” To Everything
When a woman or a man that I don't like comes close to me or touch me or talk to me or message , signal me etc .
They come with dogs , to desrespect me with a rude word or spit at me or close and loud around me , or humiliate or swears or outer intimidating, threats , aggressive body language moves , insults , or at public places , keep me waiting or touch me from behind or front or side or come to my face to provoke me for an argument or fight or take an inderect picture with me without my permission or come to talk to me to make someone else think we are framing someone or slandering someone.
Loitering
If someone cuts off my basic needs .
Being An Attention Hog
Waiting you your turn in line and not pushing in.
Always offer to pay, and be ready to pay.
Blocking my way .
Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism
Rejected
Not Moisturizing
Being Unfriendly
Treat your subordinates , or people under low working class with due respect. Don't ill treat them just because you are in the top of the ladder. It will not take more time for life's wheel to turn the other way around.
Watching Seinfeld Reruns
Over Medicating
The only time we need to use the word “provoked” is in right and fair logical , self defense with enough evidence , explaining for some action logically and fairly , we took, ( hurt and damage emotionally , phiscally finicially ) and as the reason to justify those actions and be set free from wrong judgment and guilt.
Don't hurt your parents.
Whining
Chastised
Be big enough to recognize when you are wrong, and humble enough to say you are sorry.
Using Slang
Eating White Sugar
Playing Kingdom Rush
If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.
m&m’s
Humming To Yourself
Eating Past 8 P.M
Agonized
Someone who repeat the same mistakes against me .
Monopolizing A Conversation
Poor Hygiene
Picking Your Nose
Aching
Drinking Tea
Belching
Wash your handa before eating.
Playing with my mind and emotions. Or seducing me . Stabbing me from the back .
Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
Using Your Maiden Name
But , Iam still aware. As soon as a car or bike or a dog or a thug comes close to me , I run away from them . If I was an aware I would have been hit by car long time ago or I would hurt someone and go to jail. But I avoid it. Though everyone tells me coward , but I call it taking precautions with bad poeple.And I report it too. I have survived many close car accident against me in Kitchener. Many times. Police know about it . But they think it's my fault because I smoke weed .
Diminished
Sleeping With Makeup
Forcing me to love or be loyal to someone or some groups.
Chewing With Mouth Open
Hair Pulling
Stand up to bullies. Protect those bullied.
Talking During Movies
Manners maketh the man.
Taking off your sunglasses when people are talking to you so that they can see your eyes.
Nibbling While Cooking
Masturbating
Blocking my vision.
You do not spread gossip/news unless it is trivial, but if it’s not about any of your friends, well…
Celling bangs and squeaky floors.
Being Overly Critical
Invisible
Do not wink a lot while conversing.
Not staring at strangers in public.
When someone spread ugly insulting, made up and fabricated testimonies, stories , accusations , CGI video , or private matters , morphed photos recording , voice etc about me.
When Iam in the middle of doing a very important work.
To show up late and keep someone waiting. To not live up to what you are supposed to live up to . To break promise. To let down someone. To mislead and betray someone. To violate someone’s rights. To make someone uncomfortable with bad smells and bad body language moves. To deny someone opportunity to have , peace , privacy , work, friends , food , shelter medical services etc . To muffle someone’s voice. To discredit their honest and clean work . To give someone more work than what they are supposed to do . To corner someone.
Don't compare yourself to others also don't compare others to anyone.”””…
Licking Your Lips
Excessive Salt
Watching Reality Television
If you go towards a group and they suddenly change their topic, better to leave them alone.
Usually snobbish are inconsiderate . Because they consider themselves to be above most people and need to be catered to. I hope that isn’t so, but you will not win friends and influence people if you proceed with your stated response.
Fiddling With Keys
Kissing & Telling
Skin Picking
Do not try to listen to two persons talk.
Losing Focus
Bullying People
Porn Watching
Apologize , if it's your mistake. Yes, you should do it.
Snacking
All Work And No Play
Psychology, law and ethics
Do not hang the phone suddenly after speaking, close it with a bye or thank you.
Skipping Meals
Invasion of privacy and space.
Deflated
Afflicted
Chewing On Your Hair
Horking
If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
Spying on you and Stealing your private life information and spreading it to people. Spreading rumours about . To Scare off someone. To tease , poke , touch and bug someone on and on . To make fun of someone's life , appearance and things they have. To beat someone. To insult someone. To frustrate someone , to turn people against someone. To put pressure on someone at work . To force someone to do something for you. To cut him / her off something they enjoy doing it.
Abased
Leaving Your Wallet / Keys In Random Places
Chewing Tobacco
Persecuted
Biting Fingernails
Always protect your siblings (and teammates).
Alcohol (if you think you may be an alcoholic, please get professional help)
Don't give bad looks to poeple if you have no good reason.
Being Late
Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
Share food.
When I am sleeping and sick or very tired or need sleep to function.
In other words, any hyper vigilance towards them is dropped by you, then they are up to their shenanigans again, most likely planning a way to get a boost of supply from you, sometimes unexpectedly.And if you distance yourself, whether physically or emotionally, they must pull you back in. They will never leave you alone. You will see it in the haters and narcissist’s eyes, that haunted look of someone who never lived, someone who wanders the earth restlessly, wanting to be the best, but always failing because they don't put in the effort. They are mostly slavery masters and human dealers.
Not Showering
When someone spy on me for no good reason.
Skipping Class
Always chew with your mouth closed.
Manner means be polite, thankful when helped , respected and to be thoughtful about the needs of others too when you see them need something and you can help them . You can at least avoid hurting them or adding more salt to thier injuries. It means To act and speak humbly, thoughtfully and politely at gatherings. It's opposite to be rude , arrogant ruthless , ignorant and inconsiderate.
If you are coughing and you have to clean your throat, go to the toilet and do it.
Calling me masochist or labeling me and sticking different mental sicknesses on me . While I am not.
Procrastinating
You have manners and considerations that go hand in hand to behave excellent mostly in your daily life especially when interacting with people.
Don’t look in your phone when someone is speaking to you.
When shaking hands, grip firmly and look the person in the eye.
Respect your teachers….who always force us to the next level.
Licking Your Fingers
To deny someone from having fun and to play in between him/ her and his family , friends and lovers and break them apart. To disrespect people. To withhold sex , or other sweet and important things from someone to get them become angry.Screaming children. Too many incoming phone calls and texts at once. Constant Loud noises. The neighbour’s noise and barking dogs.
Eating Dairy
Speak politely amd softly.
While talking to a colleague in office, don't try to look into his computer screen and don't try to read his mails etc. It's for him not for you.:). Respect people's privacy.
Drinking From The Carton
It's clear poeple who look for your weak points of life , personality , are powerful , capable spies have everything to use against you to stop you from critic doing of those who you critique or embarrss in your speaking and writing. They lose business , followers , powers and fans whom they use and abuse. . They are harmful, without empathy, hate criticism, are envious, want to put you down to make them better and are very sick and disordered people. They have to win, be better than and make you look worse than they do for their ego’s which need constant feeding. Don’t stay in these relationships. It will hurt you in the long run.
Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
Defeated
You’re never too old to learn something new.
Emotional Shopping
If a person who is extremely stupid , dangerous , sick , no manner , no respect , crminalistic , potentially or not , or lazy has an impact on my life. Might be some of his activities that he or she hurt or procrastinates delays my life , my rights , my important task , it will also make me angry.
Cracking Your Knuckles
Cheated
Popping Gum
Use and abuse me.
Don't listen when I clearly and loudly say " stop the desrespect and back off.
Coming to close to my face .
You do not tell anyone the name of a friend’s crush if there exists a chance that that person may tell the crush.
Hypocrisy of poeple.
Never shake a man’s hand sitting down. It's rude.
Learn how to grill well.
Scratching An Itch
Pained
According to Google:
Hold the umbrella and offer your arm.
Don't shake hands with wet hands.
While coughing or sneezing, cover it with a kerchief.
The secretive plan of provoking you to become angry starts by first finding your weak points , spying on you , daily , and sending or setting up their guys on your ways or at places you go . Spying is done by first they bug your communication, watch your moves , and listen to what you say and realize your points of weakness and what bothers you. They then develop a dialogue to irritate those point. Then they double down on the attack and repeat those points until they get a reaction. Then they refine the points to get bigger reactions. Once the reaction gets to be huge - expect a punch in the nose.
Screwed
Plotted against me .
While coming in and going out, leave the door gently, don't bang.
Gambling
Eating Meat
Never be too busy for a friendly visit or much needed ear.
Punched
Complaining
Provocations is important to know in law , self defense in criminal matters. It's usually someone who is behaving “provocatively” in the word , speaking , writing , photos , etc , school , business , competition , body language or action ways close to you or from far away.
When there is a queue, wait for your chance, don't barge.
Cheek Biting
It's violation. It's espionage. It's not coincidence. It's violation of human rights. In fact Espionage doesn't bother me ( you can't stop it by the way . How ? ) when someone is only spying at me to look at my pines or the way I sleep or sex . Because I don't do nothing illgal in my room. And I don't have hidden crimes from the past . But , what bothers me about espionage is the coordinating of the sophisticated spy with his/her team to come on my way walking or biking or by car , screeching , intimidating or sending them waiting around corners in the public , lurke to hit me with the door of a store I go to or the place I walk by or when if Iam walking wrong side at light or in the streets. They send poeple on my who look like poeple I know from Iraq . It makes me wonder and think if that's him/her or not . It distract my mind from focusing on my walking and traffic rules momentarily.
Saying “Ummm” And “Ahhh”
Conditioning love sex relationships to aggressive behaviour or money or gun using.
Pencil Chewing
Do not dig your nose with your finger for cleaning , in the public.
Slouching At The Computer
Drinking Coffee
When someone come to visit me or knock on my door or bang my door or shout behind my door , or disturb me , for no good reason , I really become angry.
Video Games
In my case when Iam nice , they are rude , when I am.polite. When I clean and shower or have a little bit of money , they don't look at me or come around me . When I stink and look dirty and slowly clumsy , they send the most beautiful girls half naked to my way . She smiles and Show you her sexy staffs. But , you stink . The psychopaths go on more as when you say hello , they ignore you. When you ignore them , they say hello to you. When you are nice to them , They're mean to you. When you are mean to them, they are nice to you. When you are happy , they become angry with you. When you are angry , they joke with you ..They must always keep you on edge never let you have peace.
Crushed
Annihilated
What are some bad habits we all have?
When a man sexually touch.
Why do we feel hurt emotionally by words and signals or action of others?
An example is , Secret intelligent agencies spy on you. Thier teams who are Sick poeple want you to turn you into a sucide bomber or into kill your self play this game with you. The hater and control freak.l mafia agency don't stop the mind games and torure , unless they see you stopping to look at poeple or go close to poeple. And also see you growing beard and stink and go in deep thoughts , wonder. , make mistakes , don't pay attention to cars , etc . little mental game of cat and mouse. When you look at them , they look away . When you don't look at them , they stand up walk close to you and show you some sexiness of butt or cleavage , legs etc. When you put your head down , they make loud noises around you or call your name without looking at you. Or shout at something to make up your head again.
If you are entering someone room/ cabin, knock before entering and seek permission.
Emotional Eating
When someone bother me for no good reason.
In office, when you go to your colleagues place/ bay for talking, do not pull the other colleagues chair for seating. If you do so, leave the chair for him as soon as he comes.
Talking In Class
When someone cut me off my good friend, poeple lovers etc for no good reason.
Eating Candy
Buzz-friggin’-feed
One-Upping
Eat lunch with the new kid.
Do not suddenly speak in between,when two people are talking.
Encourage the culture of gangsters and wars by using coward, pussy , dishonorable , words and Labels mong men to provoke.
If the teacher forgets to check for homework and your friend forgot to do it, you do not, under any circumstances, ask “Wasn’t there homework due today?”
Don't make loud noises around poeple if you don't have a good reason like work and duties.
Opening Countless Tabs
Eating Chocolate
Insulted
They make noise around you when you busy your self with internet. They want you to look at poeple or around yourself. Sometimes when you look at beautiful women , they send a Stinky street guy or 2 to come around you and disgust your appetite and make loud noises around you or threaten you. They make you leave the public and run or fistfight them and face the consequences. This can happen even in a relationship or at work.
When you are given someone's mobile for speaking, clean/ rub it with your palm before putting it on to your ears and after you are finished speaking, repeat the same and return it back.
Don't talk to poeple rudely if you have no good reason.
Blamed
Annoying People On Purpose
Skipping Breakfast
Flaking Out
Overspending
Being Argumentative
Not Holding Eye Contact
Falling Asleep In Class
Do not use other person's towel, comb, kerchief etc.
The Ultimately , they want to see you rape , kill ,jump at poeple, run after whores , punch or kill yourself or grow beard and put your head down and go to mosque or church. It's human trafficking business. If you become sick from peace , privacy , and mind games exhausted , from there doctors and police ambulance would take you over . They look you up at mental health services hospital. They call you dangerous to the public. To leave someone alone , and respect thier rights means you need to stop doing all of these subtle and obvious violations of human rights against poeple like me .
Tortured
Say sorry whenever necessary.
Someone hurt me and Don't admit mistakes.
Being a polite driver.
Betrayed
Speaking With Your Mouth Full
Dejected
Assaulted
Brutalized
While talking, do not sound too loud or too low.
Never turn down a breath mint.
Don't be offended by criticism. Take it seriously, not personally.
Respect other people’s property. Return borrowed pencils, don’t smudge their phone if you use it, and pay back loans from your friends.
Sleeping-in
Forgetting Names Of People You Meet
When I am innocent doing something good and someone Cutts me off won't let me continue.
Kouhan Fatah
Never ever open a close colleague's bag ( females) without the permission.
What are some proper manners for everyday life?
Chewing Gum
Play with passion or don’t play at all.
Bleeding
Staying Up Late
When a woman accuse me of being obsesed with her and love her , and Iam not.
Do not appreciate my hard work and help.
Do not move hands while speaking.
Leaving The Heat On When You Go Out
Take your hat off when you enter the house.
Biting Your Pen
Eating Cookies Every Damn Day
And finally , people also become angry when No one listen to you . Everyone try to make you come off as lair even when you speak the truth. They dominant your conversation. They make loud noise while you are sitting at a place eating or drinking. Loud noise around where you live to deny you sleep.Being treated unfairly , not having money , work , a good clean place for living or having Pain , injuries , bad memories , sickness can also make someone angry.
Eating When You Are Bored
When you are offered something for eating while sharing, take just a little.
According to Google that “ Consideration means having empathy for another person and conducting yourself through thoughtful behaviour when interacting with someone else and looking at them in a clean heart way , without having or developing bad hidden motives towards them while you are talking or looking at them, at least nuetural heart if not humane and polite heart.
Dragging me into fights arguments.
Freeloading
Not interrupting people when they are talking.
Intimidated
Forgetting What You’ve Told Someone
Binge Watching Netflix
Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
Giving Away “Tells” In Poker
Not Flossing
Always speak the truth.
Excessive Throat Clearing
Lying
Gaming In Class
Make your bed.
Take advantage of me .
Leaving The Toilet Seat Up
Use polite words.
Tormented
Forgetting To Shave
Not Brushing Your Teeth
Shoplifting
Not Doing Your Homework
When someone accuse me of being sick when I am not.
When Iam eating and someone talk or show dirty disgusting staffs , or making puking , irritating noises , ugly disgusting words , images , moves , body language etc .
Losing Your Temper
Squashed
Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
Overeating
Interrupting Someone
Restrict my freedoms.
In a restaurant, when you want to pull the chair from another person's table, ask for his permission.
Breaking Promises To Yourself
Not texting while you are talking to someone.
When you let your guards down, open up your trust towards them, allow your boundaries to become relaxed . You want to have sex , they call you slut or a dirty stud . Or they sex the girl and vice versa , take advantage of you and leave. Or they shut you off emotionally By being rude , hard to talk to . When you leave them alone , they make noise , charming , staffs , switching off suddenly, and being too Sweet or again too busy for you.
To lie and deceive someone. To play with the emotions of someone. To take their belongings and not bring back . To boss then around. To dig into their private life. To embarrass them in any possible way.
Copying
Snubbed
Furthermore , as a part of sucide program they use , For example , I suffer . I panhandle. I live in dirty places . Iam injured. Nobody compensated me. I nice music and post it online , the same haters criminals who have hurt me and covered up , paying rooming house guys addicts to desrespect me and cut off my internet. They continue slamming the doors to distract me mixing music or sleeping. They spy on me through my electronics and wireless camiras inside my room and they coordinator thier walking on my way on the halls to washrooms as soon as I get out . It has happened like this more than 20 times . It's hate . It's mind control. It's nerve racking.
What do people frequently do in public that get on your nerves? What makes me angry?
In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
One more time I went to Kitchener police station to report the rooming house guys and thier harrsaments especially the Roman Prist. Again they told me Iam sick and I need to take medication. Police told me that I have the right to self defense if anyone bother me or come on my way or harrsaments. He was wondering why I don't defend myself and argue with poeple over my rights while I write about law and violation of my rights.
Don't take for granted ,the sharing of food with intimate friends in the same plate. They may not like it.
Bushwhacked
Fiddling With Your Hair
Disrespected
Speeding
Pocari Sweat From Japan (seriously, if you drink this for 2 or 3 days your body will crave it instead of water)
Talking About Your Sister Behind Her Back
You do not leave a friend on read, opened (Snapchat), or seen. However, not opening a text, Snap, DM, or other message is okay.
Victimized
Wronged
When someone accuse me of being a gay or a spy and I am not.
Also , Ontario housing of Canada refused to give me housing as a person who smoke weed and dirty. The Barzani's family and Canadian Government has a hand in it . If I call police , like I have done it before calling police of Kitchener. Officer hunter was investigating my complain about espionage and the rooming house guys . He told me that I have been hallucinated because I smoke weed . Nobody spy on me . He advised me to go to doctor take my medication and sleep. He said that is the only you can deal with hallucinations paranoia and feel mental stable without accusing poeple of spying on you. Poeple are busy.
Hoarding
Put down
Being A Know-It-All
If you are in advanced classes, tell your friends which ones are actually worth taking. Do not ever try to academically sabotage your friends.
Open the car door for your passenger.
Don't stick your body to the body of others without asking permission or having a relationship with.
Don't stand infront of someone close to their face while they are sitting.
Picking Fights
Abused
When your friend shows you a picture on their phone, don’t scroll/swipe to other photos.
You marry the girl, you marry her family.
Lots of poeple provoke me to shout and disrespect in the public. They desrespect me emotionally. Or financially and phisically. Sometimes severely in a big and serious dangerous way and sometimes in a small harmful ways , like spiitin on me or swearing or coming around me threatening and leave , or sexually desrespect me through body language b, words , etc or humiliate me infront of women and friends. At the end someone must do something bad like this to provoke me into a bad reaction and response. But fairly. I desrespect just as they do . But , don't desrespect fairly. They hurt me phiscally too.
Rambling
Throw that chocolate wrapper in the dust bin, do not litter.
Obsessively Checking iPhone/iPad
Littering (really, stop littering)
Biting Your Disgusting Toe Nails
Slighted
Drinking Energy Drinks
Using Your Phone In Bed
Yelling At Your BF/GF
Don’t try to impose your opinions on others. If you think the guy’s opinion is problematic, talk/debate formally.
Not letting the door slam in anyone's face when you enter or exit a building.
Return things within time.
Its because of the self-identity, and life , property , money , title popularity, position, social status , family , house , car , business , girlfriend, husband, children, appliances, cash , jweils , powers , reputation, we have worked for ( spent body members energy , time and money on it for long ) and created for ourselves. It is the self-image that we have. For example, let’s just say, I identify myself as a good writer and someone comments on how bad I write, I would be hurt. But I must really be a good writer with reputation, recognition and good work so I can feel hurt. Otherwise it's not hurt . It's critics that embarrsing you . And you shouldn't developed hate or become angry and revengeful about it . Example of situations where someone hurt your feelings for some reason:
Quora
This is kouhan Fatah speaking about things and type of poeple who make me angry. Don't forget it . It's important. If you take it as a joke, you are responsible for my anger .
Always try not to talk to someone wearing headphones or earphones in public.
Here you go, here is the list of self defense tools .
Picking Scabs
A sport coat is worth a thousand words.
Spying on my private conversations.
Different people become angry for different reasons. Those who become angry for good reasons are fighting human rights abuse , but those who become angry for bad reasons are stupid and should not become angry or else they should be put medication or anger management classes and even jail and probation if they become violent and dangerous towards others .
Putting Dishes In Sink And Not Washing Them
Biting Your Lips
Do not make sound while sipping tea or soup or while eating.
There are many abusive people that use different psychological techniques abusive and none abusive techniques to get into your nerves and make you angry and even push you to commit crimes . Asking too many stupid questions to someone intelligent. Repeating the same topics and conversation . unwanted Touching. Staring at someone for long time. Cutting you off your sources of happiness or while you talk to someone can really make you go nuts. Invasion of your space for example when someone comes too close to you unexpectedly, or stands in the doorway , when you are in hurry and need to go through, you feel the beginnings of violent panic.
When someone humiliate and desrespect me in the public or inside for no good reason.
Oppressed
Interpreting my conversation.
Eating Gluten
When someone makes a dirty mess like in the rooming house guys, in the washrooms , kitchen etc and accuse me of being dirty.
Deprived
Don't get jealous of anyone.
And most importantly , wars , human poverty ,human rights abuse , Racism , discrimination , lack of rule of law , democracy , freedom and justice are biggest reasons that can cause anger for someone. But after all anger is supposed to be controlled under any circumstances and should not lead to crimes unless beyond your power and out of no choice. Depending what makes you angry and whether you are right or wrong.
If you have borrowed pen etc. from someone in office, return it before you are asked for it.
Jilted
Do not clean your ear with pen or pencil. It too feels yuk.
Spread positivity
Checking Your Hair / Eyebrows / Makeup / Nails
Cheating on me . Framing me . Making up stories on my behalf. Selling me . All these are deadly triggers of anger in me .Discrediting my writings about violation of human rights against me .
Do not spit or throw garbage on the road or in public.
Finishing People’s Sentences
Calling me dump , stupid and restarted. Calling me rapist , Homosexual , woman hater , family destroyer , dangerous really makes me angry. Discrimination in all its kind. Harmful jealousy. Blackmail. Bully business. Weaponizing sex and work respect , peace etc .
If your friend/ colleague has given you his mobile to show a pic etc.just see that pic and return the phone, don't start browsing his entire album.
Trolling Comments
They hit your weak points deliberately to get a reaction out of you, either good or bad. That is their intent when they start provoking you or prodding you to make you angry on purpose, and they soak it in and feel a smidgen of satisfaction and joy from getting you all worked up for no reason.They photo and video you at that moment and use it as an evidence to call you sick and dangerous. They use it as a justification to spy on you as a dangerous person. And your rights are violated on daily basis under such bad excuses.They never want you to have peace. Until you run or end up in the hospital , jail., courts.
Damaged
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Going To The Club
If you see your friend trying to talk to a girl/guy, leave them alone. Asking them about it later, and having them go into detail about that interaction is not required, but highly recommended.
Bragging
If someone ignore me when they are not supposed to.
Laughed at
Devalued
You may eat once everyone is seated at the table and the cook has lifted his/her fork off of the napkin.
When a woman accuse me of stalking her or talking bad about her , and I don't.
Spending Too Much Time Online
Damaging my good work record.
Taking responsibility for actions.
P.S: Pavlok will never judge you. Some habits are objectively bad, e.g., smoking kills you. Other habits like “sleeping in” depend on context, like if it’s making you late for work. And still other habits aren’t really either good or bad, it’s just personal preference. Also, if you have a condition that puts you or anyone at risk of serious harm you must see a medical professional immediately and you can ask your doctor if Pavlok is right for you.
Grinding Your Teeth
Humiliated